The white response to #blacklivesmatter is #alllivesmatter. Well, that's easy to say when you're white. Because you've been made to feel like you matter your entire life.The older I get, the more I see what is painfully obvious: Our nation remains burdened by the plague of racism. And yet, while I find this fact to be indisputable, so many disagree. For every fellow American who nods along with me and laments our pathetic state of racial disparities, there seem to be more who say otherwise. They are the white Americans who are “tired of hearing about it” because “slavery was hundreds of years ago” and “not their fault,” so everyone should “get over it.” They complain about Affirmative Action and the NAACP and Black History Month because “Enough already! What more do these people want?”

Now we have #blacklivesmatter as the recent movement among the black community. And the white world is more annoyed than ever. Because #alllivesmatter, right? Well, obviously. But therein lies the point. If you are white, your life already DOES matter. I am white. My life already matters to the world. My children’s lives matter. Can a black person say that and believe it?

Laci Peterson. JonBenet Ramsey. Madeleine McCann. Jaycee Dugard. Elizabeth Smart. What do these names have in common? They are names of white girls and women who have gone missing, some never found. Do you know of any black girls Continue Reading

I want to be a writer. Hey! Guess what? I already am. Think about what you want to do and be. I'll be you already are. If not, START.

It was going to cost some money—far more than I am used to spending on myself. It necessitated my husband being available to help with the kids. And it was going to push me out of my comfort zone.

But for the few reasons to NOT go, there were far more that justified the journey. So I went. I spent the money. I asked my husband to coordinate his schedule. And I conquered my nerves (or drank them away—samesies).

I went to BlogU! BlogU is an annual conference held in the Baltimore area for writers and bloggers. So many “big” names were going to attend so it was time to put on my big-girl pants and get my network on. That’s where my nerves kicked in. Bloggers often say they are introverts, making social interactions stressful. Not me. I am an extroverted person and I do enjoy public events. The fear—my big fear that I’ve written about several times before—is failure. What if no one knows me? What if I feel like a fool for even being there? I want so much to be a writer though. I had to get over it, get over myself. I had to go and be in the presence of great writers. Continue Reading

Scrambling for summer activities that may actually stimulate some brain activity? Check out Little Chickies / Los Pollitos for your kids --both the book AND the app!Ahhh, summer… For three months, there’s no rushing the kids out the door to school. Packing lunches? NOPE. That 3-D model of Jupiter your son forgot to tell you about until the night before it was due? A distant memory.

However, summer can bring its challenges—like too much free time. And loss of brain function. We parents need to keep them thinking and reading, a least a little bit, between pool visits and marathon bike rides during the months of June, July, and August. And if you’re anything like me, children’s literature can be overwhelming. Trips to the library mean roaming row after row of books, hoping something catches your eye (or more importantly your child’s eye) that will spark some cognitive stimulation.

That’s why I’m telling you about Canticos Little Chickies / Los Pollitos by Susan Jaramillo—a book chock full of good stuff to work your kids’ little brains. Read one way, the story of three baby chicks hatching and bonding with their mommy is in English. Flip the book over and the same story is read in Spanish! That’s right—two versions. One book. The fact that they could flip the book over and read the exact same story in another language was fascinating to my kids. But wait, there’s more. Continue Reading